Showing posts with label joy. Show all posts
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Monday, December 18, 2023

12.17.23 "Advent 3 - Joy!" Westminster Presbyterian Church, Pasadena, CA

 Isaiah 61.1-4, 8-11; Luke 1.26-38


It all began with a simple “Yes!” … 


The angel of the LORD came to Mary, with a request, and Mary said, “Yes!”


And so it came to pass - Mary became the mother of Jesus … the Holy Mother of God … Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.


Mary said “Yes!” …


A friend of mine recently wrote - “Say yes until you have to say No!”


Another friend said to me years ago, “I’m tired of saying “Yes!”, but I’ll keep on saying “Yes!” because I’m even more tired of what happens when I say “No!”


I celebrate with you today those who say Yes to life … yes, to you and to me …


In my senior year in Grand Rapids Christian High School, the spring of 1962 … as graduation neared, my Bible teacher, the Rev. Morris Faber, invited the seniors to come to the front of his classroom and share their plans.


One after the other, this and that, college and career, and all the dreams that a high school senior enjoys … and, then, it was my turn.


I told the class, I was going to Calvin College, and enroll in the pre-seminary course … and with that, laughter erupted … I mean, serious, raucous, uncontrolled, laughter, and I was laughing right along with all them … I’m sure some thought it was a joke, but it was no joke. I had decided that I would be a minister.


Now, some backstory - I was not what would have been recognized as “clergy” material … I’ll not bore you with the details, but it can be said, that if there were a picture of what a high school senior headed into ministry should look like, it certainly wasn’t me. 


The class laughed, and so did I.


When the laughter died down, Rev. Faber turned to me … all 5 feet, 5 inches of him - and said, “Tom, I believe you will do it.”


I’ve never forgotten that moment of affirmation … as you can tell … Rev. Faber’s word of encouragement, the power of “Yes!” … has stayed with me all these years.


Twenty years later, I was in Grand Rapids for some study, eating at a Russ’s Restaurant, a local chain famous for its hamburgers … and there, a few booths away, was the Rev. Morris Faber and his wife. 


He was recognizable - small in stature, a gnome-like face … there he was, having lunch.


I left my table and walked over to them, introduced myself … Rev. Faber looked at me with that thousand-yard stare common to dementia.


His wife explained to me, and I told her my story … then I thanked Rev. Faber for his confidence in me. His wife thanked me for coming over, and I thanked the LORD that I had the chance to see him again, to thank him personally for his goodness … 


Did he understand what I said?


Probably not … when I left, he picked up his hamburger and continued eating … his wife, with tears in her eyes.


A simple yes … 


Adults who come from difficult circumstances often look back to one or two people who loved them … someone who said “Yes!” to them, again and again … so they made it … scars on the soul, scars on the body, but the power of “Yes!” … the power of someone’s “Yes!”, in the midst of craziness and sadness … 


“You can do it!”


“I believe in you!”


The Power of Yes!


When others say “Yes!” to us, something happens deep inside of our soul - we begin to say “Yes!” to ourselves … 


I suspect Mary had said “Yes!” to herself long before the angel showed up … I suspect God waited until there was enough “Yes!” in Mary’s life for her to say “Yes!” to the angel.


However Mary was reared, whatever experiences she had, it’s evident from the Magnificat, Mary’s song of joy and justice, that Mary had a lot of “Yes!” in her life … and God be praised for that, and for every “Yes!” ever spoken in this world into the face of pain and sorrow, evil and injustice, lies and distortions … God says “Yes!” to a million, billion, gazillion, things: love, life, hope, peace, goodness and justice, fair play, decency, honesty, humility and kindness, mercy and truth.


Paul the Apostle says it well: For the Son of God, Jesus Christ … was not “Yes and No”; but in him it is always “Yes!” For in him, everyone of God’s promises is a “Yes!”


Which is why one of our alternate banners outside says, “God loves every body” - 


Every kind and type of body - flesh, blood, and bone … every shape, color, proportion, ability, and life … we are our bodies.


It’s “Yes!” that saves the day, and makes a way … it’s “Yes!” that calls for engagement, partnership, compromise, patience, working-arrangement, getting along, and making do.


Mary said “Yes!” to the angel … Rev. Faber said “Yes!” to me … and throughout the years of my work, countless people have said “Yes!” to the LORD, “Yes!” to the calling of God, to the work ahead … to the work of the church … “Yes!” to the cross, because “Yes!” is likely to ask everything of us … to give deeply, profoundly, as near-total as we can, again and again.


“Yes!” is a dangerous word … it gets us into things we didn’t plan on, and sometimes into things we don’t want.


I’ve learned over the years to be a bit more cautious with my “Yes!” … but on the other hand, caution needs to be thrown to the wind sometimes, and maybe more often than not.


One thing for sure: “Yes!” may get us into trouble, but “No!” will get us nowhere. 


One of the components of “Yes!” is trust … trust in life, trust in God, trust in others … life will provide the ways and means of getting something done … because God is involved in all of this … and, yes, we can do it … because that’s how God made us.


It may be difficult … ask Mary how easy it was to bear the child of our salvation and become the Mother of God.


I think of Sharleen Piereson, and George Coulter, 

who said “Yes!” a thousand times over … 

and when the Everlasting Arms carried them away, they heard heaven declare, “Yes! … and welcome home!”

 

“Yes!” opens the door to all kinds of things … some of them will be downright difficult … and some of them good beyond all measure … 


The power of “Yes!” … “Yes!” to each of you, and “Yes!” to life.


It is, after all, Mary’s Sunday.


Hail Mary, full of grace, the LORD is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.


Amen!

Sunday, December 11, 2022

12.11.22 "Advent 3: Joy!"

 Isaiah 35.1-2; Luke 1.39-56

It all began with simple “Yes!” … 


The angel of the LORD came to Mary, with a suggestion, and Mary said, “Yes!”


And so it came to pass - that Mary, a young lady, perhaps no more than 14 or so, became the mother of Jesus … 


She said “Yes!” …


A friend of mine recently wrote - “Say yes until you have to say No!”


I celebrate with you today all those who have said Yes to life … who said, “Yes” to you … to me … 


In my senior year in Grand Rapids Christian High School, as graduation neared, my Bible teacher, the Rev. Morris Faber, invited the seniors to come to the front of his classroom and share some plans.


One after the other, this and that, and college and career, and all the dreams that a high school senior enjoys … and, then, it was my turn.


I told the class, I was going to Calvin College, and enrolling in the pre-seminary course … and with that, the class broke out into laughter … I mean, serious, raucous, uncontrolled, laughter, and I was laughing right along with them … I’m sure some thought it was a joke, but it was no joke. I had decided that I would be a minister.


Now, just some backstory - I was not what would have been recognized as “clergy” material … I’ll not bore you with the details, but it can be said, that if there were a picture of what a high school senior headed into the ministry should look like, it wasn’t me. 


So the class laughed, and so did I.


When the laughter died down, the Rev. Faber turned to me … all 5 feet, 5 inches of him - and said, “Tom, I believe you will do it.”


I’ve never forgotten that moment, as you can tell … that was in the spring of 1962 - that word of encouragement, the power of Yes, has stayed with me all these years.


Twenty years later, I was in Grand Rapids for some study, eating at a Russ’s Restaurant, a local chain famous for its hamburgers … and there, a few booths away, was the Rev. Faber and his wife. 


He was recognizable - small in stature with a gnome-like face … there he was, having lunch.


I left my table and walked over to them, introduced myself … the Rev. Faber looked at me with that thousand-yard stare common to dementia.


His wife explained to me, and I told her my story … then I thanked the Rev. Faber for his confidence in me. His wife thanked me for coming over, and I thanked the LORD that I had the chance to see him again, to thank him personally for his goodness … did he understand what I said?


Probably not … as I left, he picked up his hamburger and continued eating … his wife, with tears in her eyes.


A simple yes … 


Mary said it to the angel … the Rev. Faber said it to me … 

 

Say Yes until you have to say No.


I’ve been thinking about this for the last several weeks.


Yes is a dangerous word … it gets us into things we didn’t plan on, and sometimes into things where we don’t belong.


I’ve learned over the years to be a bit more cautious with my “Yes” … but on the other hand, caution needs to be thrown to the wind, and maybe more often than not.


One of the components of Yes is a simple trust in life … that life will provide the ways and means of getting something done … that God is involved in all of this … and, yes, we can do it … 


It may be difficult … ask Mary how easy it was to bear the child of our salvation … recalling what the Angel said to her, what the shepherds and wise men said … wondering what her son would become, and when he began his ministry, Mary’s concern:  his wandering, his preaching, threats against him … until finally, his arrest, a quick trial, and a public execution …


Yes opens the door to all kinds of things … and some of them will be downright difficult.


I think of Bonhoeffer and Barth in Nazi Germany … they said Yes to Christ, and No to Hitler … it cost Barth his job … he was deported to Switzerland, where he spent the remainder of the war years … it cost Bonhoeffer his life … he was hanged in the Flossenbürg Concentration Camp, as the war neared its end.


The power of Yes …


Yes is the heart and soul of joy … 


It is Mary’s Sunday, we light her candle, and it’s pink … my thanks to Marjean Thomas and to Arlene Bennett for the light of the day … 


Mary’s Candle, Hail Mary, full of grace, the LORD is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.


Joy is saying Yes to God!


But let me quickly make something clear … joy and happiness are not the same thing … they can run together, and often do, but there’s a difference … a difference between joy and happiness.


Happiness is circumstantial … I’m happy if the Dodgers win … I’m happy when my children are happy … I’m happy in the company of good friends … I’m happy on a vacation in Napa Valley.


Things can go terribly wrong, and they can, and they will … happiness will disappear like a splash of water on hot summer sidewalk … happiness is a variable … joy is a constant … 


Joy is deeper … less of the moment … more of a shaping, a long-term shaping of the soul … joy is quiet, calm, strong …  


Joy grows slowly … it requires a lot of Yes … 


Adults who come from difficult circumstances often look back to one or two people who loved them … someone saying Yes to them … so they made it … scars on the soul, scars on the body, but the power of Yes, the power of someone’s Yes in the midst of craziness and sadness … 


“You can do it!”


“I believe in you!”

Isaiah 35.1-2; Luke 1.39-56


God is saying Yes to us all the time.


I have found it to be true: joyful people are joyful because they tend to say Yes to life’s requirements … they learn the important lessons of trying something new … they learn the important lessons of failure … they can say Yes to the incomplete, the unexpected, the less-than-perfect realities of life.


Something worth doing is something worth doing badly … playing the piano, running cross-country, writing an essay, or learning how to dance.


The first piano recital may go well, but afterward, the budding pianist will rehearse it all over again … the weak spots, the missed notes, and so on.


Running cross-country, you may come in last.


A baseball star hits 330 … which means only one hit per three at-bats … two-thirds of the time, there’s no hit. 


Learning to dance is no easy task.


The piano player goes back to work … the baseball player talks to the coaches … and Mary is the Mother of Jesus.


It’s all begins with a simple Yes …


Hallelujah and Amen!

Sunday, February 12, 2017

"I Will Praise God with an Upright Heart" - Feb. 12, 2017, Palms Westminster Presbyterian Church


Deuteronomy 30.15-18; Psalm 119.1-8; Matthew 5.21-37
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I will praise you with an upright heart, says the Psalmist.

I will turn to you, O God, with thanksgiving and devotion.

Praise is simply saying: 
To you, O LORD, I belong.
And how grateful I am.

Though sometimes we’re not so grateful to belong to the LORD.

Jeremiah regretted it.
Lots of others along the way, as well.

Because faith takes us into serious territory.

And we quickly learn: faith can be a burden.

This year, 2017, we celebrate the Birth of the Reformation.
Martin Luther nailed a few papers to the castle door in Wittenberg, Germany, to announce a disputation, a debate … and on those papers, 95 ideas, about faith, the church, and what it means to trust in the love of God.

Luther had no idea where it would all go.
But it didn’t take long for things to go bad.

And when it went bad, it was really bad.
The Pope condemned Luther for heresy.
The Emperor issued a death warrant.

The Pope and the Emperor called on Luther to recant.
Give it up.
Be quiet … go away.
We’ll be friends again.

Some of Luther’s friends gave him the same counsel.
Is it worth it Martin, to go through of all of this?
The brightest minds of the church say you’re wrong.
The emperor wants you dead; the Pope wants you back.
After a thousand years, Martin Luther, how can you now say that the Church has been wrong?
Are you not being a little arrogant about all of this?

Luther had times of great depression, Anfechtung in German - the very word sounds bad, doesn’t it? Anfectung!

Luther was no happy camper in the midst of so many struggles. 
Yes, he had joy, too - joy when he married, joy with his children, and good food and beer. 
He took comfort in the gospel, the pure love of God that can always be trusted … 

A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing …

But no one is an Iron Man.
No one is impervious to fear and doubt.
Luther did not always know “the joy of the LORD” … 
His faith took him to serious places … his work required huge burdens … 

Luther knew that somehow or other he was right.
But he didn’t have to be happy and sappy and clappy all the time. 
He didn’t have to sing praise jingles and put on a smile.
He didn’t have to fake it.
Or pretend that everything was wonderful.

My soul is heavy, he said.
My life is burdened.

The burdens of confronting the powers-that-be.
The death of two children.
The death of friends.
And the constant threat of arrest and execution.

But Luther knew he had to do what he was doing.
He was the man of the hour.
Upon whom the mantle of leadership had fallen.

Dear Christian friends, there is joy in knowing the grace of God and the love of our LORD Jesus Christ.

But like it or not, there’s more than one note in the symphony of God’s story.

There is also the discomfort and sting of the cross.
Take up your cross, says Jesus.
Be ready for enemies … ready for hard times.
What they’ve done to me, they’re likely to do to you, too.

Families will be upset.
People of your own household with turn against one another.

It helps to know something of church history.
To be mindful of those for whom the way of Christ has been a hard and difficult road.
American Christianity is far too eager to be happy.
To put on a smily face and play the game, “let’s pretend.”
In churches across America, preachers have become cheerleaders and crowd managers … whipping up the joy noise … and people go home having praised the LORD, but I’ll say to you, they praised without an upright heart … 

Jesus never pretended such nonsense.
And neither did Paul the Apostle, or any of the other great women and men who took up the cross and followed Christ.

Think of the Presbyterian Missionaries who traveled the Trail of Tears with the Cherokee.
Missionaries in far away lands, and day-by-day servants of the LORD, doing good, bearing burdens, feeding the hungry, caring for the poor, visiting those in prison, defending the unjustly accused, standing up for civil rights and justice.

Martin Luther, the Reformer.
Martin Luther King, Jr. on Petus Bridge.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer conspiring to take Hitler’s life.

Our own John Calvin in Geneva.
And a host of others who tackled the big stuff.
And paid a big price.

So, let’s be clear.
To praise God with an upright heart is to be real.
Authentic, engaged.
Devoted, ready.

Ready to offer the whole of our lives.
A sweet offering unto God.

As best we can.
From day-to-day, and,
Over the years.

Wholeheartedly.
And then, sometimes, not so much.
And then, sometimes.
Maybe not at all.

But God remains faithful - that’s the gospel.
Always and forever faithful.
Faithful to us.
Faithful to the ultimate purpose of God’s love - to restore creation, give life, set the captives free, give sight to the blind, healing to the sick … 

God keeps going.
And, then, in some miraculous way, so do we.

God’s grace at work.
The Holy Spirit within us, around us.
Through the life of the church.
And the life of all who dare to think deeply.

In the novel, “All the Light We Cannot See,” author Anthony Doerr tells the tale of a girl gone blind by age 6 … she lives with her father, a widower.
The father builds a miniature of the neighborhood, and she learns how to feel every little street and every little house with her finger tips, and then she walks with her father, with her cane, feeling the sidewalk, the buildings, the gutter drains, learning her neighborhood.
The father takes her out one day on their usual walk, and then, he turns her around several times and says, “Take us home, Marie-Laurie.”
With bumps and bruises, and busy folks bumping into her, she drops her cane and begins to cry.
Her father lifts her up and hugs her tightly.
“It’s so big,” she whispers.
“You can do this Marie.”

At first she can’t.
And then one day …

And for us, too … by the Holy Spirit:
We try, and try again.
People bump into us … we lose our way … 
It’s so big, we cry.
And it is.
And sometimes we can’t.
But in time, something good happens.

We grow in the grace of God.
We learn the power of prayer.
We give and receive love.
We engage and serve.
We weep and we laugh.
We lament and we try again.

Because it is so big.

Jesus speaks of big things:

Murder and judgment.
Adultery and love.
Oath making and truthfulness.

Serious stuff, is it not?

Many years ago, I showed a film to my session, produced by physicians against nuclear war … a stirring presentation of our need to work for peace and oppose war.

Afterward, one of the elders came to me and said, “Well, Tom, if there’s a nuclear war, and we all die, we just go to heaven. What’s wrong with that?”

I don’t know what I said then - I don’t think I managed that one very well.

So the question bounced around in my head for a long time until I came up with a story, of a man who dreamed of going to heaven.

And when the man stood by the pearly gates, St. Peter said to him: “You didn’t care about God’s earth; what makes you think you’ll care about God’s heaven.” And the man was turned away.

Nothing is more important to God then how we live with one another, and how we take care of God’s earth. 

It’s all so big, we cry!
And so it is.
But we can learn to do it.

Because we have to.

For the truth … our own survival, God’s green earth … 

To hear some Christians yak about it, you’d think God didn’t care about the snails and the minnows … but God cares deeply … all living creatures … when the Bible says, God so loved the world, that ain’t just you and me … it’s all of God’s creatures, great and small … the whole shebang, all of it … and that’s the truth … the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

The truth that sets us free.
To have an upright heart.
Honest and real.
Serious about the things of God.
Serious about how we live with one another and how we care for God’s creation.

I will praise you with an upright heart.


Amen and Amen.