Showing posts with label the power of Yes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the power of Yes. Show all posts

Monday, December 18, 2023

12.17.23 "Advent 3 - Joy!" Westminster Presbyterian Church, Pasadena, CA

 Isaiah 61.1-4, 8-11; Luke 1.26-38


It all began with a simple “Yes!” … 


The angel of the LORD came to Mary, with a request, and Mary said, “Yes!”


And so it came to pass - Mary became the mother of Jesus … the Holy Mother of God … Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.


Mary said “Yes!” …


A friend of mine recently wrote - “Say yes until you have to say No!”


Another friend said to me years ago, “I’m tired of saying “Yes!”, but I’ll keep on saying “Yes!” because I’m even more tired of what happens when I say “No!”


I celebrate with you today those who say Yes to life … yes, to you and to me …


In my senior year in Grand Rapids Christian High School, the spring of 1962 … as graduation neared, my Bible teacher, the Rev. Morris Faber, invited the seniors to come to the front of his classroom and share their plans.


One after the other, this and that, college and career, and all the dreams that a high school senior enjoys … and, then, it was my turn.


I told the class, I was going to Calvin College, and enroll in the pre-seminary course … and with that, laughter erupted … I mean, serious, raucous, uncontrolled, laughter, and I was laughing right along with all them … I’m sure some thought it was a joke, but it was no joke. I had decided that I would be a minister.


Now, some backstory - I was not what would have been recognized as “clergy” material … I’ll not bore you with the details, but it can be said, that if there were a picture of what a high school senior headed into ministry should look like, it certainly wasn’t me. 


The class laughed, and so did I.


When the laughter died down, Rev. Faber turned to me … all 5 feet, 5 inches of him - and said, “Tom, I believe you will do it.”


I’ve never forgotten that moment of affirmation … as you can tell … Rev. Faber’s word of encouragement, the power of “Yes!” … has stayed with me all these years.


Twenty years later, I was in Grand Rapids for some study, eating at a Russ’s Restaurant, a local chain famous for its hamburgers … and there, a few booths away, was the Rev. Morris Faber and his wife. 


He was recognizable - small in stature, a gnome-like face … there he was, having lunch.


I left my table and walked over to them, introduced myself … Rev. Faber looked at me with that thousand-yard stare common to dementia.


His wife explained to me, and I told her my story … then I thanked Rev. Faber for his confidence in me. His wife thanked me for coming over, and I thanked the LORD that I had the chance to see him again, to thank him personally for his goodness … 


Did he understand what I said?


Probably not … when I left, he picked up his hamburger and continued eating … his wife, with tears in her eyes.


A simple yes … 


Adults who come from difficult circumstances often look back to one or two people who loved them … someone who said “Yes!” to them, again and again … so they made it … scars on the soul, scars on the body, but the power of “Yes!” … the power of someone’s “Yes!”, in the midst of craziness and sadness … 


“You can do it!”


“I believe in you!”


The Power of Yes!


When others say “Yes!” to us, something happens deep inside of our soul - we begin to say “Yes!” to ourselves … 


I suspect Mary had said “Yes!” to herself long before the angel showed up … I suspect God waited until there was enough “Yes!” in Mary’s life for her to say “Yes!” to the angel.


However Mary was reared, whatever experiences she had, it’s evident from the Magnificat, Mary’s song of joy and justice, that Mary had a lot of “Yes!” in her life … and God be praised for that, and for every “Yes!” ever spoken in this world into the face of pain and sorrow, evil and injustice, lies and distortions … God says “Yes!” to a million, billion, gazillion, things: love, life, hope, peace, goodness and justice, fair play, decency, honesty, humility and kindness, mercy and truth.


Paul the Apostle says it well: For the Son of God, Jesus Christ … was not “Yes and No”; but in him it is always “Yes!” For in him, everyone of God’s promises is a “Yes!”


Which is why one of our alternate banners outside says, “God loves every body” - 


Every kind and type of body - flesh, blood, and bone … every shape, color, proportion, ability, and life … we are our bodies.


It’s “Yes!” that saves the day, and makes a way … it’s “Yes!” that calls for engagement, partnership, compromise, patience, working-arrangement, getting along, and making do.


Mary said “Yes!” to the angel … Rev. Faber said “Yes!” to me … and throughout the years of my work, countless people have said “Yes!” to the LORD, “Yes!” to the calling of God, to the work ahead … to the work of the church … “Yes!” to the cross, because “Yes!” is likely to ask everything of us … to give deeply, profoundly, as near-total as we can, again and again.


“Yes!” is a dangerous word … it gets us into things we didn’t plan on, and sometimes into things we don’t want.


I’ve learned over the years to be a bit more cautious with my “Yes!” … but on the other hand, caution needs to be thrown to the wind sometimes, and maybe more often than not.


One thing for sure: “Yes!” may get us into trouble, but “No!” will get us nowhere. 


One of the components of “Yes!” is trust … trust in life, trust in God, trust in others … life will provide the ways and means of getting something done … because God is involved in all of this … and, yes, we can do it … because that’s how God made us.


It may be difficult … ask Mary how easy it was to bear the child of our salvation and become the Mother of God.


I think of Sharleen Piereson, and George Coulter, 

who said “Yes!” a thousand times over … 

and when the Everlasting Arms carried them away, they heard heaven declare, “Yes! … and welcome home!”

 

“Yes!” opens the door to all kinds of things … some of them will be downright difficult … and some of them good beyond all measure … 


The power of “Yes!” … “Yes!” to each of you, and “Yes!” to life.


It is, after all, Mary’s Sunday.


Hail Mary, full of grace, the LORD is with thee. Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners, now, and at the hour of our death.


Amen!

Monday, December 26, 2022

12.25.22 "Christmas Day: God Said Yes!"

 Psalm 100; Luke 2.1-14


God said “Yes!”


That’s the heart and soul of Christmas … 

The birth of Jesus, called the Christ … the Anointed One, the Messiah, the one who points the way to the truth … who is the truth … 


The truth that sets humanity free from the lies and deceptions of sin … the truth that liberates and lays the groundwork for love … the kind of love that alone creates a life, a real life … 


A life full of hope … 


In Christ, we still hope … 

Hope is not done hoping … if anything, Christmas, unleashes a whole new dynamic of hope … 

Hope for a better world … hope: for ourselves, our loved ones … for all of God’s creatures, great and small … the earth, the air, the water.

The hope realized in Christ, grows larger … 

Women and men of Good Will and Purpose are called to fulfill the hopes and dreams of every child … for safety and for peace … for comfy beds and full tummies:


The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
while visions of sugar plums danced in their heads.


Is this too much to hope for?


Not at all … because God created the world in just such a way that the world and its resources can supply all our needs … it’s only sin, and its companion, greed, that hordes the earth’s wealth, and distributes it according to the interests of some, to the detriment of the many … 


Yes, sin remains, doesn’t it? 

In all of us … in each of us … 


So, we still hope … we commit ourselves to the project - to the work of God … to fulfill the promises of Bethlehem - that unto us a Savior has been born, Christ the LORD … 


God says “Yes!” 

Yes to hope, and yes to peace, and Yes to Joy, and Yes to love. 


God said Yes in the first moment of creation … the Spirit of God hovers over the dark swells of energy … God says, “Let there be light!”


God says Yes to Adam and Eve in their innocence and then in their sin … when Adam and Eve have to leave the Garden, God says Yes, again, and makes clothing for them … good clothing, sturdy clothing, but at a cost - an animal gave up its life to cloth two foolish human beings who chose self-interest rather than obedience … who then blame one another for the mess rather than admitting the truth … with two sons, one of whom kills the other in a fit of jealousy … and then, God be praised, a third son, Seth, in whom God says Yes again …


All along the way, God says Yes.


The Apostle Paul put it this way: For the Son of God, Jesus Christ, whom we proclaim … was not “Yes and No”, but in him it is always - “Yes.” For in him, every one of God’s promises is a “Yes.”


There is no message on the face of the earth more positive than the Gospel of our LORD Jesus Christ … 


Our faith in Christ is not the only faith that God has created and sustains … 

God is at work saying Yes everywhere … all across the face of the earth … in countless guises and many tongues … throughout the human story … 

God says Yes, again and again …


Even as humankind often says No!


When humankind turns faith into condemnation … 

When humankind, in its perversity, turns love into damnation … when humankind takes delight in some going to heaven, and others going to hell … playing with that foul idea, toying with it, to frighten children, to lay guilt upon guilt … to distress and destroy, and then go to war for it all … 

Religious zealots here in the States, the Taliban banning women from college, religion gone wrong … even as it rakes in the money from the naive, the frightened, the gullible, and always the true believers … those who believe the rejection of many is somehow the best way to create a better world. 


This day, I shout to the world, as loud as I can: Unto us a Savior has been born … God has said Yes, and will always say Yes to the world, to all of us … to every man, woman, and child … to the dogs and to the cats … to the birds of the air and the fish of the sea, to the critters that crawl upon the face of the earth … God says Yes.


And that makes us a people of Yes …


Yes opens up the door to new ideas, new ways of living, new patterns of thought …


Saying “Yes” can be downright frightening … disturbing … upsetting the apple cart … 


When some said Yes to the children of Little Rock, that all the children of town could go to the same schools, with the same teachers, the same desks and the same pencils … some shouted out their hate, and said No - not all the children … we don’t want all the children … we hate some of the children … and they have no place in our schools, our neighborhoods, our homes, and our hearts. 


When some said Yes to gays and lesbians - that all of us have the right to understand ourselves, and who we are, and to love as love manifests itself in our being … and some said No, we will not accept their love, we will not grant them their liberties; we will condemn them, fight them, beat them, and kill them. They have no place in our lives.


These same battles are being waged right now for all the trans-children and their families … 


And for women’s rights to choose …


Some just keep on saying No … and they dress it up with Bible quotes and pious prayers … they blab about family values, and the American Way - and they haven’t a clue.


They’re blinded by their hate, 

Chained in the deadly power of No. 

Stuck in their ways, cannot move. 

No wonder they’re angry - angry at everyone else, when they should turn to themselves and face the truth.


God says Yes … yes to love, and yes to freedom, and yes to all the complexities of the human story … how we love, and how we live, and how we all seek the same things: a place in the sunshine of God’s love, a place at the table for decent food and safe housing … good schools, safe neighborhoods … good jobs, fair wages … a chance to be me, and for you to be you.


God. says. Yes.


It costs God a lot to say Yes … 

It’s costly to say Yes.

But you know what?

Saying No is even more expensive … saying No bars the door and pulls the curtains …  


All my life, I’ve had the privilege of knowing people who know how to say Yes … they possess a quality of life second to none … life may not be easy for them … but they say Yes.


They commit themselves to the big projects, take on huge burdens … get the job done, and the world is better for it.


Think of the people in your life who say Yes.


The teacher in third grade, the minister with the youth group, the banker who gave you a loan, the people who’ve loved you … all along the way, the power of Yes … 


Yes to kindness … generosity … let’s get it done … we’re on our way … tomorrow is our purpose, and today we move ahead.


Christmas Day … Christ is born … God says a mighty Yes to all the world, and the angels sing for joy.


Hallelujah and Amen!